HAPPY V DAY 2025! 🐯

To Bangtan's social butterfly, ARMY's Winter Bear, and the ultimate Slow Dancer — happy 30th birthday! Thank you for your childlike innocence, deep soulful voice, incredible vocal range, big boxy smile, charming naiveté, beautiful imagination, and eccentric sense of humour. Thank you for being unapologetically you, and for always showing us the purity of love and friendship, the importance of humility, and the beauty of slow dancing by yourself. It's crazy to think that I've been watching you grow up for nearly a decade, from being the most hyperactive and mischievous member to one of the calmest and quietest. As you now enter your 30s, though, I hope you always stay loving, curious, and free-spirited.  💜

Dining Out: Christmas Day 2025 Dinner at Xiang Zi Hot Pot

My mom and I decided to go for Christmas dinner at Xiang Zi Hot Pot after last year's rousing success. We invited her bestie and got a 5:30PM reservation. It seems like they decided to do two seating times this Christmas instead of having reservations at any time like they usually do, because when we got there, it was a full house.

Tofu puffs, fish balls, quail eggs, beef tendon balls, luncheon meat, lotus root, daikon, and winter melon
Chrysanthemum greens and tender beef slices
Bean curd rolls, lettuce, napa cabbage, king oyster mushrooms, and spring rolls
White fish, squid, beef tripe, and tender beef slices
Premium abalone
Fresh-cut beef slices
Mushroom and pork bone soup

So, last year, we were blown away by the assortment and set up they had at Christmas. They had a huge buffet-style spread of various prepared dishes and snacks as well as extra raw items to pick up ON TOP of their full tablet menu. But they decided to do things a little different this year. They cut down about half the menu and put almost everything out buffet-style. A bunch of our favourite things — various slices of meat, prepared cold dishes like lettuce stem salad or spicy cucumber salad — weren't available. A lot of the ready-to-eat foods weren't being refilled fast enough. There were only about 10 items we could order from the tablet to the table. Disappointing, since the sheer variety of food is what we love about coming here over other hot pot places.

An issue this evening, though, is that we were seated upstairs. I don't really mind myself (hey, extra steps means I can eat more, right?), but my mom and her best friend are in their 70s and have bad knees and arthritis. And the buffet? Where all the food is? It's downstairs. There's no elevator. So I ended up walking up and down the stairs about 8 times to get enough food for everyone. And that's fine because that's as much exercise as I'm getting this holiday week. No biggie. The real problem? They FORGOT OUR HOT POTS. You know, the actual pots with the broth that we can cook all of our raw food in? Yeah. All three of us ordered the same type of broth — mushroom and pork bone. Not a particularly complicated order. They usually get our pots to us within minutes. But tonight, it took them 45 MINUTES for them to bring our broth pots to our table. This was after asking three different servers to check on them for us. And, mind you, every table gets a 2-hour seating limit here. The server sheepishly had to assure us that they wouldn't have a time limit for us tonight — frankly, the least they could do. If we weren't hungry when we arrived, we were starving by the time we could actually eat our food. 

So, yeah. Xiang Zi's Christmas dinner service this year was a disappointing, disorganized mess. Judging by how long they took to get our hot pots to us, how many empty chafing dishes there were at the buffet, how long it took them to refill all the different ingredients, and just the lack of variety that they usually have, I'd say they were way too understaffed for the sheer amount of customers there tonight and had to cut way back on food costs. I've never had a less-than-excellent time at Xiang Zi, so this dinner was particularly disappointing. (I also just discovered that they don't even have an official website anymore. Are they going out of business?)

On that note, I hope everyone had a merry Christmas and a better dinner experience than we did!

Xiang Zi Hot Pot

Uptown Market Shopping Centre

3989 Highway 7

Markham, ON L3R 5M6

(905) 305-9888

Dining Out: Christmas Eve 2025 Dinner at Ruth's Chris Steak House

We originally wanted to have our annual family Christmas Eve dinner at The Keg, but obviously, they were fully booked unless we wanted to eat at 4:00PM or 9:00PM. (We didn't.) We were scrambling to find somewhere decent to eat for the holiday that had a reservation time from 5:00PM to 7:00PM, and then my brilliant mind thought of Ruth's Chris Steak House — definitely pricier than we were seeking, but then my brother insisted that Christmas dinner was on him because he and his family weren't coming up this year. And lo and behold, they had one 6:45PM reservation slot left. It was meant to be!

Arugula salad with goat cheese, cranberries, and grapes tossed in cranberry pomegranate vinaigrette
6 oz. centre-cut filet with shrimp
Garlic mashed potatoes
Maple-glazed butternut squash with maple candied pecans
Creamed spinach
Roasted Brussels sprouts with applewood-smoked bacon and honey butter
Mini white chocolate cheesecake

All four of us went for the Ruth's Classics prix fixe menu, which includes a starter, an entrée, a personal side, and dessert for $97. I got the cranberry arugula salad (the perfect combination of sweet, bitter, and tangy — I could honestly eat this everyday), the 6-ounce centre-cut filet and shrimp (okay, The Keg does great steak, but Ruth's Chris does IMPECCABLE steak — the beef is so melt-in-your-mouth tender, I almost didn't need a steak knife), and my mom shared the garlic mashed potatoes and the maple-glazed butternut squash. We also got the creamed spinach (the ultimate steakhouse side dish and the unanimous favourite) and roasted Brussels sprouts (sweet, salty, smoky, crunchy — addictively delicious) for the table to share. For dessert, a perfect mini white chocolate cheesecake with raspberry coulis and two pieces of dark chocolate bark — rich, sweet, and decadent, but small enough to keep us from feeling too guilty (and bursting out of our pants because they know how full we'd be by the time dessert rolled around).

This was the best Christmas dinner I've had in years. I think this might be a new Christmas tradition in the making. (At least, I will make it so. My family will have no say in the matter because I make the reservations and therefore hold all the power.)

Ruth's Chris Steak House

170 Enterprise Blvd., Unit J101

Markham, ON L6G 0G5

(647) 794-0170

Dining Out: Christmas Eve 2025 Dim Sum at NKS Banquet Hall

I had a half-day of work today and it would've been churlish not to go out for lunch since it's Christmas Eve and all, so I made plans for dim sum with my mom and her bestie at their regular spot:

Dough fritter rice noodle rolls with yuk sung
Steamed BBQ pork buns (char siu bao)
Steamed shrimp dumplings (har gao)
Steamed pork and shrimp dumplings (siu mai)
Pan-fried turnip and preserved pork patties (lo bak go)
Deep-fried shrimp and chive dumplings
Deep-fried pork and egg yolk glutinous rice (zong)
Baked egg custard tarts (daan tat)

I know I've talked endlessly about how great and totally underrated NKS Banquet Hall is, but honestly, if we're talking quality vs. value, their dim sum is absolutely the most worth it. Their decor isn't as fancy as Casa Victoria or trendy as Luna, and they keep it simple and traditional with their dishes (no truffle oil or gold foil here), but NKS is cheaper than both and the quality of their food is consistently excellent (similar to Casa Victoria; significantly better than Luna). The tea fee, at $2 per person ($1.80 if you're a regular, apparently), is on par with most dim sum places, but if you spend $20, you get your choice of siu mai or beef meatballs FOR FREE. IN THIS ECONOMY!

Also, if the room filled almost exclusively with Cantonese-speaking senior citizens isn't indication enough (and most of them are regulars since no less than five people came to greet my mom), NKS is — at least in Markham (which, honestly, is more Chinese than Toronto's Chinatown) — the best place to come for dim sum. And there's never a line-up because all the Millennials are going to the trendy, Instagram-able dim sum places. (I admit I have been guilty of this a time or two.) But y'all, when it comes to dim sum? Always trust the Hong Kong immigrant boomers! They don't give a shit about Google reviews or ratings — they just want good, authentic Cantonese food.

NKS Banquet Hall

New Kennedy Square

8360 Kennedy Rd., Unit B06

Markham, ON L3R 9W5

(905) 948-8668

Dining Out: Winter Solstice Festival Dinner at NKS Banquet Hall

Went for Winter Solstice Festival dinner with my mom and her bestie at our go-to Chinese restaurant, NKS Banquet Hall:

Fried tofu puffs with assorted mushrooms and Chinese broccoli
Stir-fried sirloin beef with broccoli and candied walnuts
BBQ combo platter: Roast duck and BBQ pork
Garlic-fried pork ribs

Got all our favourites, of course. I was tempted to get Peking duck but my mom had had it for lunch with my aunts and uncle — plus, NKS does a promotion on Peking duck on Tuesdays for half-price or something, so it seemed silly to get it there on any other day — so we made do with a BBQ combo of roast duck and char siu instead. Both food and service were incredible as usual, despite there being some crazy Christmas line dancing event going on. (I swear, Chinese seniors know how to party harder than anyone else.) Will be coming back on Wednesday for Christmas Eve dim sum!

NKS Banquet Hall

New Kennedy Square

8360 Kennedy Rd., Unit B06

Markham, ON L3R 9W5

(905) 948-8668

Dining Out: A Belated Birthday Dinner at Kiu

Indeed, I am still celebrating my birthday over a month later.

My friend Ronsee has taken me out for dinner for my birthday every year for over a decade, but he was in Halifax for a friend's wedding this year. With his work schedule, taking care of a one-year-old, and moving house, he doesn't have a lot of free time these days. So when he randomly asked if I was free for dinner on this Tuesday night, I immediately replied that I was. (To be fair, I am usually free outside of Monday to Friday, 9:00 to 5:00. The perks of having no spouse and no children.) I had been craving sushi, so I decided on Kiu, which is close to both of our workplaces. I hadn't been there since before the pandemic, but remember it being really good — better than the average Japanese eatery around here, but less fancy than an omakase restaurant (like Zen or ATO). 

Assorted sashimi (3 kinds, 6 pieces of chef's choice)
Beef tataki with sweet garlic sauce 
Tuna tartare with anchovies and shiso leaf
Ebi gyoza with chives and green onions
Takoyaki with mayo, bonito flakes, and aosa seaweed
Black cod marinated with saikyo yuzu miso
A5 Wagyu sukiyaki with tofu, veggies, and onsen egg
Assorted tempura (2 shrimp and 3 seasonal vegetables)
Assorted nigiri (7 pieces of chef's choice and toro handroll)
Matcha lava cake with mixed berry sauce

We wanted a good variety of dishes since we were going to share everything, so we decided to go for one prix fixe menu (which includes the sashimi, sukiyaki, tempura, nigiri, and dessert), and then added two seasonal items (the ebi gyoza and the takoyaki), plus three items from their permanent menu (beef tataki, tuna tartare, and black cod). I'm happy to report that Kiu has not diminished in quality since I last visited, which I think was maybe six or seven years ago — everything was fresh, delicious, and beautifully presented. The sashimi and nigiri were impeccable, of course, but if I had to pick some other highlights, they'd probably be the takoyaki, black cod, and sukiyaki. But there wasn't a dud in the bunch, which is really saying something since we went through 10 different dishes. I think on my quest to try more new restaurants over the last several years, I kind of forgot about Kiu, which is really an oversight on my part. In a city where eateries close after only a year or two (especially in this downtown area), it's really telling that Kiu is still around after a decade. 

Three hours later (we had a lot to catch up on) and sushi craving curbed, I had another truly excellent belated birthday dinner. And that's the last one for this year, I swear. Onward to all the winter holiday meals!

Kiu

169 Enterprise Blvd., 2F

Markham, ON L6G 0E7

(905) 475-6348

Dining Out: A Belated Birthday Dinner at The Keg

My colleague very generously gave me a $50 gift card for The Keg for my birthday, and I thought it was the perfect opportunity to make up for the super disappointing birthday dinner I had at Bâton Rouge (during which I wished I gone to The Keg instead). So I asked my friends Minji and Daniel to join me and we had a most delicious time:

Prime rib Yorkshire puddings
Peppercorn steak with garlic mashed potatoes
Billy Miner pie

Minji and I were both originally going to get the prime rib, which has been my go-to for many years, but we noticed that they now have prime rib Yorkshire puddings available as a seasonal appetizer, and immediately agreed to order them. (They are DELIGHTFUL, golden and crispy, served with an incredible horseradish cream sauce — would 100% order again if it's still on the menu.) But we thought it might be overkill to have prime rib for both our starter and our mains, so I opted instead for the peppercorn steak (cooked so perfectly medium rare, and was so juicy and tender and freaking DELICIOUS, I nearly wept) with a side of my fave garlic mashed potatoes. We had told our server the dinner was in celebration of my birthday, so we also shared a free slice of their Billy Miner pie for dessert, one of my favourite desserts of all time — the perfect ending to a glorious meal. (Getting a slice of free Billy Miner pie for my birthday is one of my favourite traditions, so I'm glad I wasn't robbed of it this year.)

The Keg proves to me year after year that their reliability for serving excellent quality food with incredible service is why they've been around for over 50 years and is still packed all the damn time. (Reservations are always recommended, at any of The Keg locations. Even during non-peak hours. We went for dinner at 5:30, and both the bar and the dining room proper were already full.) Now, that having been said... how long after my birthday can I still celebrate it?

The Keg

162 York Blvd.

Richmond Hill, ON L4B 3J6

(905) 882-0500

HAPPY JIN DAY 2025! 🐹

Wishing Mr. Worldwide Handsome and BTS' matnae the happiest 33rd birthday! Thank you for your ability to be shameless and humble at the same time, your incredible perseverance and ambition, your charming honesty, your windshield wiper laugh, and for always showing that age is just a number. Thank you for taking care of your little brothers, for always taking the time to talk to ARMYs, for always choosing to be positive, and for reminding us to love ourselves. I hope you have an incredible birthday with your loved ones and a wonderful year ahead filled with love and happiness. 💜

BTS VLOG: V's Vlog in Los Angeles

Honestly, the best part about vlogs is the food footage. And now I just really want some fancy surf and turf. And some fancy Korean BBQ. You know, I've always been indifferent to LA, but I would travel there to eat... I've never had In-N-Out, after all.

Dining Out: A Belated Birthday Dinner at NextDoor Restaurant

My friend Iris also took me out for a belated birthday dinner (scheduling a meet-up gets hard when your friends have kids) this weekend, this time at one of my go-to special occasion restaurants, NextDoor:

Fried Brussels sprouts with maple balsamic vinaigrette, lemon zest, parmesan aioli, and parmesan snow
Street corn guac with crema, feta, and friend corn tortillas
New England seafood pot pie with fresh catch of the day, double-smoked bacon, fingerling potatoes, sweet corn, creamy bisque, and puff pastry
Crying tiger steak bowl with 6 oz. Thai marinated bavette steak, salmon caviar, garlic fried rice, sous-vide egg, nam jim jaew sauce, and fried shallots

Four dishes — two starters and two mains — to share. The fried Brussels sprouts and the street corn guac are tried-and-true favourites, but the seafood pot pie and steak bowl are new to their menu. The "pot pie" is presented in a kind of deconstructed format, so it's not really a pot pie, but more of a rich, creamy, thick seafood chowder with a delightful puff pastry on the side for dipping. Exactly what I expected in terms of flavour, with the bacon adding a nice smoky, savoury element, and the seafood was generous. Delicious, cozy, and comforting. All the things I want on a freezing, gloomy day.

The steak was perfectly tender and the salmon caviar added a punch of oceanic flavour — a true surf and turf experience. We mixed the sous-vide egg with the garlic fried rice and each bite was a gloriously creamy flavour bomb. (I did not touch the nam jim jaew sauce, though. It was full of cilantro and therefore would have ruined my entire experience.) The steak bowl definitely made up for the lack of fusion in the seafood pot pie, and offered a totally different but equally enjoyable experience. This was another delightful meal for the books. You know, I'm officially a huge fan of belated birthday dinners. I get to celebrate with good food and good friends for a month!

NextDoor Restaurant

Unionville Planing Mill

139 Main St. Unionville

Unionville, ON L3R 2G6

(905) 604-6983

Dining Out: A Belated Birthday Dinner at Costa Sorrento

When my friend Chelsea asked me where I'd want to go for a birthday dinner over a month ago, I said, without hesitation, "Costa Sorrento." We had to re-schedule a couple times, but she, Braden, and I were finally able to meet up at Costa Sorrento for dinner this evening, where we indulged in a delightful Italian meal of daily specials. (I swear I'll make it to their permanent menu at some point, but their daily specials are just too enticing.) 

Bufala, Insalatina, Pistacchio Mortadella, Crudo, Cipolle, Focaccia: Bufala mozzarella, mixed salad, pistachio mortadella, prosciutto, pickled onions and beets, and focaccia
Insalatina di Polpo, Patate, Carciofi e Olive: Octopus with potato, artichoke, and olive salad tossed in citronette dressing
Mezzi Rigatoni al Grano Khorasan alla Siciliana: Small Khorasan rigatoni with fried eggplant, fior di latte, basil, and parmigiano
House-made peach sorbetto and chocolate gelato

It's one of those meals where every bite is met with a resounding "MMMM!" I find that Italian meals can be a little too heavy and make me feel really bloated, but this one was particularly light and refreshing and we all felt perfectly full afterwards. I took our server's suggestion of pairing peach sorbet and chocolate gelato for dessert and, I gotta say, it was INSPIRED. It's not a combination I would have ever thought of, but the tartness of the peach worked surprisingly well with the bittersweet richness of the chocolate. The night ended with a lovely chat with the owner (who recognized us from our previous visits) and a pint of my favourite green apple sorbetto to take home. Food is truly the best birthday gift.

Costa Sorrento

179 Enterprise Blvd.

Markham, ON L6G 0E7

(905) 604-2019

Jimin and Jungkook — Are You Sure?! Season 2 Main Trailer

Interrupting my stream of birthday dinner posts with this trailer because it just unexpectedly dropped and I AM ALWAYS SURE WHEN IT COMES TO JIKOOK. This is the most precious friendship I have ever witnessed in the last 9 years and I ALWAYS NEED MORE. They give me faith in LOVE AND HUMANITY.  (But also wanderlust and hunger pangs at 3:00AM.) Anyway, guess I'll need to re-subscribe to Disney+ again... 

Dining Out: A Korean BBQ Birthday Feast at Daldongnae

Well, I've officially entered the last year of my 30s. And to celebrate my 39th, I went to watch J-Hope's Hope on the Stage: The Movie with Minji (who is not an ARMY, but I was so proud of her for knowing six songs!) and then we met up with Daniel for a Korean BBQ feast at Daldongnae, which has unintentionally become a birthday tradition for me.

Pork belly, thin sliced pork belly, and beef boneless short rib
Pork belly
Pork belly
Thin sliced pork belly
Beef boneless short rib
Beef boneless short rib
Black tiger shrimp
Black tiger shrimp
Kimchi jeon
Doenjang jjigae

Two orders of pork belly, thin sliced pork belly (you know, for a crispier experience), and beef boneless short rib, with side orders of black tiger shrimp, assorted mushrooms, and kimchi pancake. (We got the kimchi jeon because Daniel doesn't eat seafood and while it's decent, the seafood pajeon is so much better. The one at Daldongnae is still one of the best I've ever had. Minji and I have vowed to get it next time we come here, Daniel's tastebuds be damned.) The BBQ also comes with unlimited egg, corn cheese, lettuce for wraps, garlic slices, kimchi, soybean stew, and a variety of banchan (I don't care what anyone says, acorn jelly is the best of them all and I'm pretty sure between me and Minji, we had at least eight refills).

In lieu of birthday cake (I already blew out a birthday candle at last night's dinner, anyway), we went over to Tiger Sugar for bubble tea and croffles. A lovely ending to a perfectly low-key birthday.

Daldongnae

135 York Blvd.

Richmond Hill, ON L4B 3B4

(905) 707-0683